Circle the most appropriate number for each statement regarding your marriage. (1 = Never 5 = Always) 1. My partner and I agree on how to solve problems. 1 2 3 4 5 2. My partner and I resolve our conflicts and are able to compromise . 1 2 3 4 5 3. My partner and I treat each other with respect. 1 2 3 4 5 4. My partner and I agree on sexual satisfaction. 1 2 3 4 5 5. My partner and I agree on how to handle our finances. 1 2 3 4 5 6. My partner and I agree on a philosophy of child rearing. 1 2 3 4 5 7. My partner and I spend plenty of time together doing enjoyable things. 1 2 3 4 5 8. My partner and I agree on matters of religion/philosophy of life. 1 2 3 4 5 9. My partner and I agree on issues of nutrition, exercise and health. 1 2 3 4 5 10. My partner and I are faithful and committed to each other. 1 2 3 4 5 Total Points _______ Add up the points. If you're scoring less than 30 points or some of the areas addressed are a strong source of regular conflict, consider seeking assistance to strengthen your relationship.

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"The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." Carl G. Jung, 1933